Month: April 2025

In the Pain

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When life gets hard, our natural response is usually to ask why. Why is this happening? Why now? Why me? But in John 12:27–28, we see a moment where Jesus, fully aware of the suffering He’s about to endure, says something radically different:

“Now my soul is troubled. And what shall I say? ‘Father, save me from this hour’? No, it was for this very reason I came to this hour. Father, glorify your name!”

John 12:27-28a

His soul is troubled, and yet He doesn’t pray for escape — He prays for God to be glorified. This Is What Trust Looks Like. Jesus wasn’t pretending to be fine. He didn’t mask the heaviness of His soul. He admitted the weight of what He was carrying — and still, His desire wasn’t for comfort, but for God’s purpose to be fulfilled through Him.

That’s not weakness. That’s strength. That’s surrender. What If We Prayed Like That? What if, in the middle of pain, disappointment, confusion, or heartbreak, our first prayer wasn’t “Get me out of this” but “Be glorified in this”? Not because the pain is good. Not because the suffering is easy. But because we trust that God wastes nothing — and that even in the hardest moments, His glory can shine through us.

“I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us.”

Romans 8:18

Your Struggle Might Be Sacred

Jesus knew His suffering had purpose. We may not always see the full picture in our own lives, but this much is clear: God is able to bring beauty out of brokenness, and when we offer our trials to Him with open hands, He does something eternal with them. It’s not about denying our pain — it’s about devoting it. Saying, “Use even this, Lord. If you can be seen in this, then don’t take it away too quickly.”

“For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all.”

2 Corinthians 4:17

“Father, Glorify Your Name” — A Dangerous, Beautiful Prayer

This is a bold prayer. It surrenders control. It places trust in God’s bigger plan. And it shifts the story from being all about us… to being all about Him. Jesus prayed it — not just in John 12, but again in Gethsemane: “Not my will, but Yours be done.” And if Jesus could pray it in His darkest hour, maybe we can, too.

“I eagerly expect and hope that I will in no way be ashamed, but will have sufficient courage so that now as always Christ will be exalted in my body, whether by life or by death.”

Philippians 1:20

So next time you feel the weight pressing in, try this: Take a breath. Acknowledge the pain. Then say — even through tears —“Father, glorify Your name.” There’s power in that. And God will meet you in it.

“Dear friends, do not be surprised at the fiery ordeal that has come on you to test you… But rejoice inasmuch as you participate in the sufferings of Christ, so that you may be overjoyed when his glory is revealed.”

1 Peter 4:12-13

Peace in Christ brothers and sisters.

Why We Need Jesus

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There’s a quote that flips a lot of religious assumptions on their head:

Holiness is not the way to Jesus; Jesus is the way to holiness.

It’s short, but it packs a punch. For many of us, whether we’ve grown up in faith or come to it later in life, there’s often a quiet belief that we have to “clean ourselves up” before we can approach Jesus. Like we have to reach a certain level of moral performance before we’re worthy of His presence. But this quote reminds us of the gospel’s core truth: it’s not about what we do to get to Him — it’s about what He does to bring us to God.

“For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast.”

Ephesians 2:8-9

Jesus doesn’t wait for perfection. He invites us as we are.

Think of the people Jesus surrounded Himself with during His ministry — fishermen, tax collectors, sinners, outcasts. They weren’t holy when He called them. But through being with Him, learning from Him, and following Him, they were transformed. Holiness wasn’t the entry ticket; it was the result of walking with Him.

“He saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit.”

Titus 3:5

We don’t earn Jesus by being good — we grow in goodness by knowing Him.

Trying to earn our way to Jesus through good deeds alone can lead to pride or despair. Pride if we think we’re doing well, despair if we keep falling short. But the gospel frees us from that pressure. It tells us: Jesus came for the broken, not the perfect. He came to save, not to reward the already righteous.

“And by that will, we have been made holy through the sacrifice of the body of Jesus Christ once for all.”

Hebrews 10:10

So what does this mean practically?

It means we don’t have to hide our mess. We come to Jesus with our struggles, our doubts, our inconsistencies — and He begins the slow, beautiful work of making us holy. It’s not instant. It’s a process. But it’s real, and it’s rooted not in our effort, but in His grace.

“But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”

Romans 5:8

Holiness is the fruit, not the root.

Let Jesus be the root of your life, and holiness will grow. Not as a burden, but as a natural outcome of knowing Him more deeply.

So the next time you feel like you have to “get it together” before you pray, go to church, or even just approach God — remember this: You don’t get holy to find Jesus. You find Jesus, and He makes you holy.

“Jesus answered, ‘I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.’”

John 14:6

Peace and holiness in Christ brothers and sisters.

Pick your Podium

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This last week, I shared this message with a group of teenage athletes. I believe it’s a word that we can all find encouragement in. Whether you’re an athlete or not, we all have a podium to stand on. The question is, which one will it be?

My journey as a Christian athlete is a mixed bag at best. I grew up going to church occasionally, or when convenient, and pouring a lot of energy into athletics. I had struggles balancing faith and sports. And I don’t think there really was a balance. I prayed fairly regularly. I was baptized. I did Sunday school when I could. But beyond that there was no pursuit of holiness or the things of God. It came down to what motivated me, and it wasn’t deepening my relationship with Jesus. It was success in sports and school. That was a motivation I carried into my young adulthood. Instead of wrestling and grades, it became coaching and my career as a teacher.

The major lesson I have learned through all of it is I need to make Christ the center of it all. In order to do that, I had to learn who Jesus really is. When He isn’t your priority, you don’t learn much about Him. It wasn’t something that was a priority in my home growing up. I never knew what doing devotionals were until I was an adult. I never knew worship was more than singing a few hymns on Sunday. I never knew what it meant to live a life of service, devoted to the wellbeing of others. I was never shown what it meant to witness my faith. All of these things are core principles of what it means to be a follower of Jesus. And they were all missing from my life until I encountered Him in my mid-20s.

So let’s go back to the question: who is Jesus? He asked His own disciples, “who do you say that I am?” I found my answer, as I hope you all do, from Jesus himself. Let’s take a look at some words straight from God’s word.

In John chapter 1 it says that In the beginning Jesus was the Word and was with God and was God. Later, in John 14:6 He says that He is the way, the truth, and the life. In Revelation 22:13 Jesus is called the Alpha and Omega, the beginning and the end. Colossians 1:15-17 calls Him the image of the invisible God and by and FOR him all things were created.

If Jesus is all of these things, then my life had to radically change. I couldn’t be elevating other things over my relationship with Him. I couldn’t be trying to measure success in anything other than knowing Him more deeply. To be a Christian means to be sold out for Jesus. To be captivated by Him. Colossians 3:4 calls Jesus our life. And therefore He has to be the focus of our life.

Jesus gave his followers a title that He also gave himself. In John 8:12 He said, “I am the light of the world. In Matthew 5:14 He said, “You are the light of the world.” And therefore it is. The piece that had never been taught to me. I am a vessel for His light to shine through. I am meant to make Him known in whatever setting I find myself: as an athlete, coach, teacher, student, husband, friend, coworker, or any other title and position.

Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You are serving the Lord Christ.

Colossians 3:23-24 ESV

The reward we put so much effort into seeking through sports, careers, and other achievements is very different from the reward spoken of here. Our pursuit is Jesus, and what we get is so much more than anything we could ever hope to receive through earthly pursuits. So I ask you, which podium has priority in your heart? The one you stand on to receive recognition, or the one you speak from to give God glory?

Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world—the desires of the flesh and the desires of the eyes and pride of life—is not from the Father but is from the world. And the world is passing away along with its desires, but whoever does the will of God abides forever.

1 John 2:15-17 ESV

Peace in Christ brothers and sisters.