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“The Power of Forgiveness: Lessons from the Bible”

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Forgiveness is a fundamental concept that resonates throughout the Scriptures, teaching us valuable lessons about compassion, healing, and the grace of God. It has played a key role in my life, especially pointing me to the goodness of God and seeing that goodness in His children. Below are several lessons about forgiveness that have been shown to me through the years and I hope they will mean something to you as well.

Forgiveness is a Divine Act. One of the most powerful examples of forgiveness in the Bible can be found in the parable of the Prodigal Son (Luke 15:11-32). This story beautifully illustrates the Father’s unconditional love and forgiveness, welcoming back his wayward son with open arms. We learn that God’s forgiveness is boundless and available to all who repent. Therefore my forgiveness should be boundless.

The Lord’s Prayer is a model of forgiveness. In the Lord’s Prayer (Matthew 6:9-13), Jesus teaches us to pray for forgiveness as we forgive others. This passage reminds us of the reciprocity of forgiveness – the extent to which we forgive others directly influences the forgiveness we receive from our Heavenly Father. It underscores the importance of extending grace to one another. Jesus says, “Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us” (Matthew 6:14-15). This verse reinforces the concept that we must be willing to forgive others just as we expect God to forgive our sins. Forgiveness is not just a one-way street but a continuous cycle of grace and mercy.

Joseph’s Forgiveness is a Testament of Strength. The story of Joseph and his brothers (Genesis 37, 39-45) offers an inspiring example of forgiveness. Despite being betrayed and sold into slavery by his own siblings, Joseph forgives them when they come to him in need. His journey from betrayal to forgiveness reminds us that forgiveness can bring about healing and restoration. I find myself needing to forgive others for much less. Shame on me if I find it hard to offer the grace that has been offered me.

Forgiveness leads to peace. In Colossians 3:13, we are instructed to “bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” Forgiveness not only mends relationships but also leads to inner peace and harmony within the community of believers.

The Sacrifice of Jesus: The Ultimate Act of Forgiveness. The pinnacle of forgiveness in the Bible is seen in the crucifixion of Jesus Christ. His sacrifice on the cross for the forgiveness of our sins demonstrates the magnitude of God’s love and forgiveness. Jesus, even in his agony, cried out, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing” (Luke 23:34). This profound act of forgiveness serves as the foundation of our faith and redemption, underscoring the importance of forgiving others as we have been forgiven.

Forgiveness brings healing. In James 5:16, we are told to confess our sins to one another and pray for each other so that we may be healed. Forgiveness is not only a spiritual act but also a source of emotional and physical healing. Holding onto bitterness and resentment can be detrimental to our health, and forgiveness brings about freedom and restoration.

Forgiving Seventy Times Seven. In Matthew 18:21-22, Peter asks Jesus, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?” Jesus responds, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy times seven.” This statement is a call to limitless forgiveness. It highlights that forgiveness should be a continual practice in our lives, not a limited resource.

The Blessings of Forgiveness. In Psalm 32:1-2, King David beautifully expresses the blessings of forgiveness: “Blessed is the one whose transgressions are forgiven, whose sins are covered. Blessed is the one whose sin the Lord does not count against them.” Forgiveness brings relief from guilt and the assurance of God’s love.

In our journey of faith, let us remember that forgiveness is a divine act that brings healing, reconciliation, and blessings. Through Christ’s sacrifice and the biblical teachings on forgiveness, we are called to extend grace to others as we have received it from our Heavenly Father. By doing so, we live out the gospel, becoming instruments of God’s love and reconciliation in the world. Forgiveness is a central theme in the story God has been telling. that reflects His boundless love and grace. Because of that, we are called to live from a place of compassion and mercy to one another.

May you experience the peace that comes with living in His forgiveness.

Seeking

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What are you looking for in life? How about today? When you woke and started your journey, where did your thoughts drift?

For me, a lot of the time, I immediately go to my to-do list for the day. Whether it be my teaching subjects, preparedness, window cleaning lineup, or any of the many other obligations and responsibilities that life has for me. But God has been speaking. Even today, as I sat down to write this, God is reminding me of where my thoughts need to be. I feel Him asking me the question, “what exactly are you searching for?” The majority of my thoughts tell the story of a man who wants to be useful, productive, and provide for his family’s needs. And that is where my heart is. But am I searching for it in the right ways and the right places?

“But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”‬‬

Matthew‬ ‭6‬:‭33‬ ‭ESV

Literally everything we could ever need in a day, in our life, is experienced in the presence and pursuit of God. I couldn’t be more useful than by sharing Jesus’s goodness and love with others. I couldn’t be more productive than by making disciples. I couldn’t provide anything greater for my family than a godly example or sacrificial love and a life of serving others. All of that comes in seeking God’s kingdom. That will make me the best teacher, the best parent, the best spouse, and the best version of everything I could possibly be. But is that what I am searching for in my day? Is it what you’re seeking out?

“You will seek me and find me, when you seek me with all your heart.”

Jeremiah‬ ‭29‬:‭13‬ ‭ESV‬‬

God promises us that if we really search for Him, that He will be found. That begs the question, are we truly seeking Him out? What does that even look like? How would we begin our days and end our days and live out everything in between if that’s what our mission was? Jesus said to seek His kingdom and His righteousness. So, in simple terms, to seek God is to live in a right way before Him and before others. That’s what righteousness is. And also to want to see God’s kingdom here in this world. To do that, we live as He did. It’s to act as that city on a hill and a light to the world. We seek God when we seek to reflect God. Because we need to abide in Him, as John 15 says, in order to bear the kinds of fruit that Jesus did. To abide in Him means we live in such a symbiotic relationship that His spirit dictates our thoughts, actions, and words.

“I will walk about in freedom, for I have sought out your precepts.”‬‬

Psalms‬ ‭119‬:‭45‬ ‭NIV

One way we can know if we’re searching for God is if we’re experiencing freedom. Things like anxiety, depression, anger, bitterness, and the like, are all clear indication that we aren’t seeking God or the things of God. Precepts are by definition a general rule intended to regulate behavior or thought. God has given us ways of living that will enable us to live the fullest life possible. In Micah chapter six, we are told that God calls us to seek justice, love mercy, and to walk in humility. Those should be markers of our lives if we’re search for God.

It certainly takes intentional living. It takes a lot of prayer, time alone with God, looking for Him in the mundane and the miracles. It takes persistence to serve and give, especially when it’s hard to do so. It takes surrender of our selfishness. To seek God is to be consumed with Him. And we can’t be consumed with Him and ourselves at the same time. If you’re like me, then you probably need to let go of the incessant planning and live more in God’s embrace because that’s where peace and purpose are really found.

Peace in Christ brothers and sisters.

Sanctuary

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When you hear the word sanctuary, what comes to mind? Some may have thought of a part of the church..but why do we call it that? Many may think of a safe place or place of peace. The dictionary definition of a sanctuary is a place of refuge or safety, and also use in terms of a nature preserve. I’m sure it’s not surprising to hear but the concept of a sanctuary is intertwined throughout the Biblical story. In fact, I would offer up that it is one of the key themes being told by God. What I want to do in today is trace that theme throughout the Biblical narrative. So where better to begin than at the beginning?

Sanctuary in Genesis

“then the Lord God formed the man of dust from the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life, and the man became a living creature. And the Lord God planted a garden in Eden, in the east, and there he put the man whom he had formed.”

Genesis‬ ‭2‬:‭7‬-‭8‬ ‭ESV‬‬

God creates this separate place called Eden and places man there. It’s safe to say that man was not created in Eden, but was brought by God to join with Him there in mission. If a Sanctuary is a meeting place with God, the Garden of Eden would have to qualify. This event sets the tone and stage for what God intended for humanity. That is, to be with Him.

But humanity screws it up as we know. They are exiled and not allowed to enter. But God doesn’t close the book on His plan. Instead, He goes out of the Garden to meet with them. We see that with Cain and Abel. Again with Noah. Proving that God’s desire to meeting with humanity is still very much His plan.

Sanctuary in Exodus

“Now Moses was keeping the flock of his father-in-law, Jethro, the priest of Midian, and he led his flock to the west side of the wilderness and came to Horeb, the mountain of God. And the angel of the Lord appeared to him in a flame of fire out of the midst of a bush. He looked, and behold, the bush was burning, yet it was not consumed. And Moses said, “I will turn aside to see this great sight, why the bush is not burned.” When the Lord saw that he turned aside to see, God called to him out of the bush, “Moses, Moses!” And he said, “Here I am.” Then he said, “Do not come near; take your sandals off your feet, for the place on which you are standing is holy ground.” And he said, “I am the God of your father, the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob.” And Moses hid his face, for he was afraid to look at God.”‬‬

Exodus‬ ‭3‬:‭1‬-‭6‬ ‭ESV

This may seem like much smaller scale than the Garden, but look at how God describes the meeting place…holy ground, denoting that it was in fact His presence there before Moses. This moment sets up God establishing a more physical representation of His presence. Lets fast forward to the post plague and Red Sea.

“And let them make me a sanctuary, that I may dwell in their midst. Exactly as I show you concerning the pattern of the tabernacle, and of all its furniture, so you shall make it.”‬‬

Exodus‬ ‭25‬:‭8‬-‭9‬ ‭ESV

This is pretty clear evidence that God is wanting to be in our midst. We actually see the word sanctuary used here. It is the Hebrew word: mik-dawsh’ meaning sacred, holy place where God’s presence is. And this holy place would go wherever Israel went. It would serve as a constant reminder of God be among His people. And from then on to the time of David, the children of God would seek Him there.

“O God, you are my God; earnestly I seek you; my soul thirsts for you; my flesh faints for you, as in a dry and weary land where there is no water. So I have looked upon you in the sanctuary, beholding your power and glory. Because your steadfast love is better than life, my lips will praise you. So I will bless you as long as I live; in your name I will lift up my hands. My soul will be satisfied as with fat and rich food, and my mouth will praise you with joyful lips,”

Psalm‬ ‭63‬:‭1‬-‭5‬ ‭ESV

This tabernacle would later become the temple. And for Generations, that is where people would seek to meet with God and His presence would reside. Take a look at Solomon’s dedication of the new temple.

“As soon as Solomon finished his prayer, fire came down from heaven and consumed the burnt offering and the sacrifices, and the glory of the Lord filled the temple. And the priests could not enter the house of the Lord, because the glory of the Lord filled the Lord’s house. When all the people of Israel saw the fire come down and the glory of the Lord on the temple, they bowed down with their faces to the ground on the pavement and worshiped and gave thanks to the Lord, saying, “For he is good, for his steadfast love endures forever.””‬‬

2 Chronicles‬ ‭7‬:‭1‬-‭3‬ ‭ESV

This would all point to a new and greater sanctuary to come. Isaiah prophesied of it. Isaiah 7:14 calls Him Immanuel, meaning God with us. And again in Isaiah 9:6-7 where He is labeled as Mighty God. Luke 1:35, again showing Jesus to be Holy (hagios in greek meaning most holy thing). Who is the most holy thing but God? It is with Jesus that God has demonstrated the concept of Sanctuary the most.

Sanctuary and Jesus

We’ve established how a sanctuary is a holy place, where God’s glory is and where we meet with Him. What better way to demonstrate that than in the person of Jesus? Several passages in the New Testament build on this idea of Jesus being the sanctuary of God.

  • Fullness of God (Col 1:19)
  • the Word made Flesh (Jn 1:1-14)
  • He and God are one (Jn 10:30)
  • Fullness of deity dwells and all authority (Col 2:9-10)
  • Jesus is the way to God (Jn 14:6)

It is safe to say that where is Jesus, God is. He is the ultimate Sanctuary. And much of Jesus ministry demonstrates that. Matthew 11:28-30, He says in Him we find rest and we learn what it means to live in God’s light. If we are burdened and bogged down, if we aren’t growing more in our understanding of God’s call on our lives, then maybe we aren’t listening to the call from the Sanctuary.

In John 15:4-6 it explains how taking Sanctuary in Jesus establishes a relationship that produces changes and goodness in us. If our life isn’t growing and maturing spiritually, if we aren’t producing a harvest of godliness and love, then perhaps we have neglected the holy place.

Jesus also set a pattern of what it looks like to enter the sanctuary. Often, Jesus entered into long periods of prayer and solitude. In Mark 6:31, Jesus invited His disciples to come away to a desolate place and rest and pray and rejuvenate. If we are not taking time to be alone with Him, then we need to reshuffle some priorities.

“Therefore, brothers, since we have confidence to enter the holy places by the blood of Jesus, by the new and living way that he opened for us through the curtain, that is, through his flesh, and since we have a great priest over the house of God, let us draw near with a true heart in full assurance of faith, with our hearts sprinkled clean from an evil conscience and our bodies washed with pure water. Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for he who promised is faithful. And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near.”

Hebrews‬ ‭10‬:‭19‬-‭25‬ ‭ESV‬‬

Not only is Jesus the Sanctuary of God, His life, death, and resurrection has granted us permanent access into God’s presence. Which means, wherever we are, we can meet with Him. We are without excuse. No job, no hobby, no relationship, nothing should ever prevent us from entering in with God. And by no means should we ever forget the price it cost to grant us such access

“Then Jesus told his disciples, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me.”

Matthew‬ ‭16‬:‭24‬ ‭ESV‬‬

To enter the sanctuary of Jesus is to lay aside any and all selfishness. It is to trade in our life for His. It is to live sacrificially and outwardly. Throughout scripture, to enter the sanctuary first required sacrifice. That has not changed. The atonement has been taken care of. But our pride and sinful wills must be laid on the alter.

As Christ begins to live in us, everything about us begins to change. Our minds change. Our desires change. Our wills change. Our relationships change. Ultimately, our reason for living changes. Possessions and position are no longer our priorities. Comfort and security are no longer our concerns. Safety is no longer our goal, because self is no longer our god. We now want God’s glory more than we want our own lives.

David Platt

Doesn’t that seem to be in line with God’s whole purpose from all the way back in Genesis? God wants us. He wants you. He has made a way for me and you to enjoy His presence. To receive His healing from the brokenness. To be transformed and made new. To win the war against sin. To live out our purpose here on Earth as stewards, sharing His love, truth, and goodness. To know our place and identity and His children. Now we must want that more than our own lives. Because in laying down our lives and the feet of Jesus, the entrance of the Sanctuary, there we find true life.

Peace in Christ brothers and sisters.

The First Son

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“What do you think? A man had two sons. And he went to the first and said, ‘Son, go and work in the vineyard today.’ And he answered, ‘I will not,’ but afterward he changed his mind and went. And he went to the other son and said the same. And he answered, ‘I go, sir,’ but did not go. Which of the two did the will of his father?” They said, “The first.” Jesus said to them, “Truly, I say to you, the tax collectors and the prostitutes go into the kingdom of God before you. For John came to you in the way of righteousness, and you did not believe him, but the tax collectors and the prostitutes believed him. And even when you saw it, you did not afterward change your minds and believe him.

Matthew 21:28-32 ESV

It matters far less where we’ve come from, or even where we find ourselves than where we are headed. God is in the business of reconciling lives. He rescues and redeems. He takes broken and imperfect people and restores them and uses them in the story He’s writing. I believe that this parable of Jesus illustrates that. The two sons described are then related to sinful people and religious people, but not in the way they would have expected. Jesus confronts the religious leaders of the day who refused to see the Kingdom of Heaven standing before them in the person of Jesus and continued in their spiritual blindness to operate contrary to the call of God. Then there were the tax collectors (one of the most hated in society) and prostitutes (one of the most dejected in society). They were the broken and lost who saw the Kingdom of Heaven in the person of Jesus and believed and surrendered their lives to Him.

Obviously, we have a stark contrast between these two groups of people. But I believe the point Jesus is making, is that He is the source of life and salvation, and even those of us who started off life with the worst possible choices, can still find redemption through Him. Even today, if you find yourself in a lifestyle contrary to the God’s calling on your life, you can choose Jesus and find life and restoration. No one is beyond His love. No one is beyond His grace. No one is beyond His reach.

“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him.

John 3:16-17 ESV

The whoever means whoever. I was once living a life apart from God. Self-seeking. Pleasure-seeking. Honor-seeking. But not God-seeking. But just as the first son did, I changed my mind. I have gone to work in the vineyard where the True Vine is and where I hope to be for the rest of my days. And the grace I have been shown I hope to never take for granted. Do you know someone who is living the way I once did? Walk with them. Listen to them. Speak life to them. Pray for them. Live a life that reflects Jesus to them. They aren’t ever beyond hope. None of us are. Let’s choose life and finish strong!

Peace in Christ brothers and sisters.

Sacrifice and Peace

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“Offer right sacrifices, and put your trust in the Lord. There are many who say, “Who will show us some good? Lift up the light of your face upon us, O Lord!” You have put more joy in my heart than they have when their grain and wine abound. In peace I will both lie down and sleep; for you alone, O Lord, make me dwell in safety.”

Psalm‬ ‭4‬:‭5‬-‭8‬ ‭ESV

Peace is one of those universally sought-after things. But there is a multitude of ways people try to achieve it. One thing is true, peace is not connected to our circumstances. If it is, then peace will always be elusive.

“Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.”

John‬ ‭14‬:‭27‬ ‭ESV‬‬

When Jesus spoke these words, it was on the brink of sending His followers out into a hostile world. Trials and hardships would be a nearly constant companion for them. But in spite of that, Jesus still says they can have peace. He can make that promise because He is the source of that peace. Notice He said that it was His peace that He gave to us. Any reading of the four gospel accounts reveals a life full of circumstances that would not give many of us peace. Jesus was born into poverty, hunted when He was a child, relocated multiple times, lost His father at some point as a child, lived as a wanted man for three years, mocked and ridiculed, abandoned by friends and family, persecuted, beaten, and executed. Even in light of all of that, Jesus (being the Prince of Peace) lived a life at peace and promised that we can have the same.

Our peace is based on Who He is. It’s based on the fact that our life has meaning and purpose. That we are loved and have immense value. We are pursued and fought for. We have grace even though we make mistakes every day. We are accepted in Christ and based on His perfection, not our brokenness. We have peace knowing our trials are temporary and our pain and loss will end one day in the happiest of happily ever afters.

Psalm 4 also says that it is the Lord who puts joy and peace in our hearts. It is in Him, through Him, and because of Him. But sacrifice is required on our part. Romans 12 talks about being a daily living sacrifice. We must lay down our plans for His, our desires for His, our pride for humility, our materialism for a life of service, and our self-centered love for selfless love. There is always sacrifice on the way to peace. He paid the ultimate price, now it’s our turn to surrender selfish ambition for a life spent in bringing joy, life, encouragement, and hope to others. At the end of ourselves, we find peace.

Peace in Christ brothers and sisters.

Ebenezer

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“Then Samuel took a stone and set it up between Mizpah and Shen and called its name Ebenezer; for he said, “Till now the Lord has helped us.””

1 Samuel 7:12 ESV

I’ve been reading a lot lately about God’s deliverance. The entire story of the Bible is a compilation of miraculous occurrences of God’s intervention to rescue and save His creation. He covered Adam and Eve after their sin and fall. He preserves Noah’s family and the animals through the flood. He rescued Lot and his family from wicked Sodom. He preserved Joseph in Egypt. He reached down to save Hagar and her child. He parted the sea for Israel. He tore down the walls if Jericho. He guided David’s stone to take down the giant Goliath. He gave victory to Gideon’s tiny forces against a large enemy. He reached down and struck the army set against Jerusalem in the days of Hezekiah.

“But you, O Lord, are a God merciful and gracious, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love and faithfulness.”

Psalm 86:15 ESV

These are just a handful of the stories of God’s saving grace. If we take the time to stop and reflect, we will see our own story is also full of stories of God’s deliverance. I know mine is. And like the Prophet Samuel, we should set up a stone of remembrance. However that may look. But the greatest act of deliverance is not symbolized in a stone, but in a cross. Not in a mound of stones, but in one that was rolled away. Every Ebenezer points us to where our hope truly is, but none more so than cross of Christ and His empty tomb.

“For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God,”

Ephesians 2:8 ESV

If you’re finding life just a little too heavy right now, like myself, join me in the soul searching experience of remembering and honoring God’s faithfulness. Peace in Christ brothers and sisters.

Waking Watchful

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Have you ever found yourself waking up and your mind drifts, either subtlety or quickly, to thoughts of things you wish were different or things you have a problem with? I had this happen only to open up my Bible and read this:

“Continue steadfastly in prayer, being watchful in it with thanksgiving.”

Colossians 4:2 ESB

I was immediately convicted. The Lord had seen into my heart and spoke directly to it. What a good God He is. And what a difference it made to switch my mind to prayer with the focus on giving thanks.

We all have a choice to wake up and think on the ‘have nots’ and the ‘I wishes’ or to lift our hearts in gratitude and praise. One poisons our bodies and distorts our views while the other brings peace and helps us keep our eyes on the prize, that is Christ and a life lived in honor to His name.

Praying Christ’s peace over you brothers and sisters.

Being Still

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Can I stand still in the face of uncertainty? In the face of possible tragedy? If there was a good chance that my world was about to fall apart, could I be still? Most of my life so far has answered with a resounding no. But that doesn’t have to continue to be my story. Nor does it have to be yours.

When the people of Israel faced the looming annihilation from Pharaoh at the sea, they were told to stand and see the salvation of the Lord. When the disciples were falling apart in the middle of a raging sea, Jesus awoke and questioned their little faith.

It’s so easy, even for the heart devoted to Jesus, to be overwhelmed in the face of very real danger. It’s in those moments we either need others to remind us, or we need to remind ourselves, that Jesus is in the midst of the danger. He’s there in the pillar of fire. He’s there in the boat. He’s there. You’re not alone, and most likely you don’t need to do anything other than be still. He’s still the same God that parts the sea and calms the sea.

“fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”

Isaiah‬ ‭41:10‬ ‭ESV‬‬

Peace in Christ brothers and sisters.

Withering or full?

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I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing.

John 15:5 ESV

When the irritation of others causes irritation in ourselves, we know the connection with the vine isn’t what it should be. We feel and act like withering grapes. I speak from experience. And this applies, obviously, to far more than irritability. When the sin of others causes us to stumble we have left the source of life in Jesus, to steer us on course. When the worldly goals and passions become our own, where is the heart of Jesus? Just as the fruit of the vine cannot receive necessary nutrition from any source other than the vine, so it is with us.

He is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn of all creation. For by him all things were created, in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or dominions or rulers or authorities—all things were created through him and for him.

Colossians 1:15-16 ESV

We were made by Him and for Him. When we live outside the source of our life and purpose, we wither. Fortunately, the vine can restore the most withered of fruits in an instant. There are days when I feel dried up and in a moment, He can speak life and my heart is filled again. Be filled in Christ anew brothers and sisters!

Go in His peace.

Life of Struggle

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Have you ever thought that life is a struggle no matter what stage you’re in? And it seems to be a struggle for the same thing. Think about it. No matter if you’re a toddler or teenager, 39 or 93, freedom is always something we strive for. Granted, that struggle looks different depending on our age and circumstances. However, freedom seems to be at the core of it all.

When we are small, we rely on our parents for everything. As we grow, we seek ways to be released from the constraints that come along with being a child. We want to make more of our own decisions. We want to try new things, oftentimes even if it goes against our parent’s guidance.

When we move into adulthood, we gain freedom in a much larger measure. What comes with that is a much larger degree of responsibility. Balancing those responsibilities with our new found freedoms can be a real challenge. New obstacles lay in the way. Jobs, bills, opportunities or the lack thereof, Our struggle is not so much to gain freedom, as when we were a child, but to secure it. This freedom also looks different. We don’t exactly have parents telling us what we can and can’t do, we have other obstacles doing that. We get busy making sure the electricity stays on, there’s a roof over our heads, there are clothes on our kid’s backs and food in their tummies. If we aren’t careful, we begin to see these as burdens and get bogged down.

Late in life (granted I am not there yet and this is purely from observation), it seems to be a battle to hold on to that freedom. Again, this freedom looks different and the struggle does too. We try to hold on to that freedom of mobility. Our diet becomes more constrained. Our activities slowly become more limited. Our bodies don’t heal like they used to. Freedom seems to slowly fade away.

The good news is that our lives don’t have to be this way. Not to say that there won’t be challenges. Because there certainly will be. We will be constrained. We won’t be able to do all that we plan or hope for. But, we will be free in the best possible way. And even in our limitations, we can find freedom. You see, all the freedoms I listed above are merely physical ones. But in the struggle for those freedoms, we end up imprisoned emotionally and mentally. Which, in the long run, will strip us of physical freedoms as well.

The path to freedom has already been laid out for us. We don’t need to pave the way for ourselves. Freedom can be experienced regardless of circumstances. Sure, we may not have all the money we would like. We may not be able to go on the trips we want to. But we can be free from the big things. Like worry, stress, fear, and sin. Those things cripple even the wealthy. It doesn’t matter how privileged someone is, or even if they are their own boss, you’re not free if you’re burdened with stress and sin. Humanity has a tendency to put the shackles on themselves. We put ourselves in cells of fear. In our struggle for freedom, we end up with far less.

The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.

John 10:10 NIV

Jesus came into this world to provide the most important form of freedom…from ourselves. We strive and we strive but it was never meant to be that way. The life we seek is the life Jesus wants to give us. The problem is we do some much to run after an opposite life. Our comfort becomes the priority. Our goals become paramount. The liberty to choose what is good for us is as age-old as the garden in which the enemy of our souls first lured Adam and Eve away from God’s plan. But freedom is not found in the struggle, but in the surrender. Instead of trying to dictate so much of our lives, we need to be lead by Him. Plus our souls are free in Christ. All else are fringe benefits.

The life of the Christian is one that seeks the freedom, not of oneself, but of others. The best way is ultimately through a relationship with Jesus. We can look less to our 401k and more to the homeless man on the street. We can put less thought into that new (you fill in the blank) and more time praying for those in desparate need. We can allow ourselves to get uncomfortable in order to bring comfort to others. Freedom is found, not in viewing ourselves as the center of the universe, but as a part of it meant to bring a piece of God’s kingdom closer to home for anyone we can. Bring on the constraints. We go forward to make Him known. Come what may, the Lord will be our guide and our provider. Therein lies freedom.

Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom.

2 Corinthians 3:17 CSB

Peace in Christ brothers and sisters.